We all have had that "on the cliff" experience. But hey, youre still here. You didn't fall over. You deserve a standing ovation for that. Don't fall over just yet. There's much to live for. Turn back and try again.
Certainly, i know that love isn't all you need in marriage. Commitment is very important as well. Commitment is what lives when love dies. When a marriage crashes, just know that it did because the love and commitment has passed away.
NEWS FLASH: You can be busy doing nothing! Hope you're busy doing productive things that you're proud of. Not claiming you're busy so that people can see you as a serious person. Be intentional. If you deceive everyone, you can't deceive yourself.